Balar Illam
Their belongings. Take your kids here if they're demanding that you buy them the latest video game (showing them a photo or talking about is not really that effective as taking them in person).
Assembly meditation/prayer (as in yoga; i.e. no particular religion, i.e. in contrast to Christian/Muslim missionaries -- I'm always leery of that and ask these questions).
Meditation/prayer before partaking meals.
The kids who served the food now eating (they take turns in serving).
Everyone washes their own plates.
Serious game of marbles. Weekend recreation (notice they're not wearing their school uniform).
I visit India about once a year, and this time I came across this orphanage just 2 km from my home in Madurai. Decided to support it. I think if people take up at least one local cause to support it may be more effective than sending donations to organizations. I think it makes a difference to support organizations that are local to were you live, where you not just put a check in the mail, but can see first hand of the situation and how it helps them. They also appreciate the interaction. Just talk to them, take a topic on science, ignite their curiosity, inspire them, fund or help arrange field trips, etc.
I’d encourage parents to send their city kids who are totally spoiled demanding this video game and that, and what’s cool and what’s not,… to spend some community service for those in need. It’ll sober them up a bit — and give them something better to do than fight over petty things. Speaking of which, these kids are far better in character – humility, gratitude, discipline, curiosity. And most of all they are not “lost” in some pop-culture, they are totally down to earth. It’s unbelievable how snobbish even elementary school kids in the city are these days (especially so in India than in the USA; even more so when parents seem to encourage it!).
FYI, yes this is a boys orphanage. The girls orphanage is at the other end of the city, I’m sure (I hope!) at least a few of the ten thousand habitants of that corner of the city is supporting them directly also.